Valentine’s Day pushes a hot button for many people. For women, expectations can run very high in their hopes to find romance and professions of love. The stakes are high for men too, as they feel the pressure to please their partner and meet these expectations.
Whether your single or part of a couple, resist the pressure and ignore the fairy tale romance associated with Valentine’s Day. Here are some ways to ignore the hype and enjoy the day:
1. Focus on love, not romance.
Even if you’re single, there are people who love you and those you love as well. And if you’re in a relationship, you don’t need a retail-created holiday don’t to quantify your love.
2. Count your blessings, not your flowers.
Show your appreciation for whatever your partner does on Valentine’s Day. Remember it’s the thought that counts A grateful heart is self-rewarding whether you are single or in a relationship!
3. Forget the candy
Give a gift that you want your partner to have. Give something your love will really want. Give homemade coupons for back or foot rubs, washing the car, returning the video rental, picking up groceries or dry cleaning. Little tasks.
4. Fuss over those you appreciate so they feel loved.
You’ll smile when they smile and everyone will feel good.
5. Love yourself!
Recognize your own value and lovability. Take care of and pamper yourself as well as appreciate yourself for all you do, your accomplishments and everything you are.
6. Share a meal, not the check
Whether your single or in a relationship, it’s about the experience of good company rather than going out to a fancy restaurant. Enjoy a meal at home with friends or family members.
7. It’s just one day!
There are 364 other days to live a rich and fulfilling life. Keep it in perspective focus on whatever you want to focus on, even if it is romanceand love.
Ronnie Ann Ryan – The Dating Coach
Author of MANifesting Mr. Right
http://www.MANifestingMrRight.com
Creator of the powerful new audio program
I Believe: Affirmations to Attract Love Now!
203-877-3777
mailto:Ronnie@NeverTooLate.biz
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